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He said: “My wife and I started off unable to listen to each other, as we had walls around ourselves.”
She said: “I was just surviving in my marriage and knew that divorce was coming.”
And then they both said:
“We started marriage mentoring with an amazing, Godly couple, Bonnie and Brian Ragan. Each time we met, we would come out with more understanding and practical skills for dealing with our challenges. We learned how to communicate, validate and remove the walls we had. Bonnie & Brian have helped us save our marriage!”
I entered BTHR hesitant—ashamed and fearful of facing painful truths. But doing it online helped me ease into the group, and soon I saw how much we all shared and how healing it was.
Our small group was a safe place to learn, cry, and receive encouragement without judgment. I only wished for more time to connect; after such isolation, BTHR reminded me I’m not alone and gave space to be vulnerable without feeling exposed.
Finishing brought some sadness, but I left built up in spirit, truth, and hope—equipped with tools, support, and courage to move forward. Bonnie’s own story strengthened my faith and gave me hope for the future.
I highly recommend BTHR, even if you’re just beginning the hard journey to wholeness. It’s worth it.
For 15 weeks, I had the honour of meeting with Bonnie and my Go-To-Gals. The BTHR course allowed me to feel a sense of relief, as I gained understanding that my partner's sexual integrity issues are his and that porn is not 'normal,' as I had been informed by a pastor.
I am continuing to learn about myself, my partner, but most of all, God. When I said “I do!”,
pornography was was not His plan for us.
The course has and is drawing me closer to God, to understanding myself, and my partner.
I am thankful I found this group when I did because I was sinking in the quicksand and getting in over my head.
I would encourage any women who is dealing with the sexual integrity issues of their partner to connect with this group. This has been my launch pad into a healthier me.
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